Someone asked me what my favorite book about natural childbirth is… I said “Hypnobirthing The Mongan Method” Do you know about this book? 

It is a popular book that teaches expectant parents how to use self-hypnosis and relaxation techniques to create positive birth experiences. The book explains the philosophy of a physiological birth and the principles of how getting in the right mind set enhances your body’s ability to birth more calmly.  Practical guidance and exercises for preparing for and achieving a natural and comfortable birth are also included along with stories and testimonials from parents who have used HypnoBirthing successfully. 

HypnoBirthing is based on the idea that fear and tension can interfere with the natural process of birth, and that by eliminating these negative emotions, women can reduce pain and complications during labor and birthing. HypnoBirthing aims to help women trust their bodies and their instincts, and to empower them to make informed choices about their birth. HypnoBirthing also involves the partner as an active participant and supporter in the birth process. 

Some of the benefits of HypnoBirthing are2

  • Shorter and easier labor 
  • Less need for medication or intervention 
  • Greater satisfaction and bonding with the baby 
  • Faster recovery and healing 
  • Enhanced confidence and self-esteem 

HypnoBirthing is not a magic trick or a mind control technique. It is a natural and holistic approach that requires preparation, practice and commitment from both the mother and the partner. HypnoBirthing can be learned through classes, books, audio recordings or online courses. It is compatible with any type of birth setting, whether it is at home, in a hospital or in a birth center. HypnoBirthing is also adaptable to different situations and preferences, and does not exclude the use of medical assistance if needed or desired. 

HypnoBirthing is one of the many options available for women who want to have a natural and positive birth experience. It is not the only or the best option for everyone, and it may not work for some women or some circumstances. However, for many women and their partners, HypnoBirthing has been a life-changing and empowering experience that has helped them welcome their babies into the world with joy and love. 

7 pain management tools that you can use during an unmedicated childbirth: 

  • Breathing techniques: Breathing deeply and rhythmically can help you relax and cope with the intensity of contractions. You can practice different breathing patterns, such as slow breathing, light breathing, or patterned breathing, and find what works best for you. Breathing techniques can also help you focus and stay calm during labor3
  • Acupuncture or acupressure: These are ancient methods of stimulating specific points on the body with needles or pressure to relieve pain and promote healing. Acupuncture and acupressure can help reduce stress, anxiety, and muscle tension, and increase blood flow and endorphins, which are natural painkillers. You can consult a trained practitioner or learn some simple techniques to apply yourself or with the help of your partner1
  • Aromatherapy: This is the use of natural oils extracted from plants to enhance your mood and well-being. Aromatherapy can help you relax, energize, or soothe your senses, depending on the type of oil you choose. You can use aromatherapy by inhaling the scent, applying it to your skin, or adding it to your bath or massage oil. Some of the oils that are safe and beneficial for labor are lavender, chamomile, rose, and peppermint1
  • Assistance from a trained doula or coaching from a birthing partner: A doula is a professional who provides physical, emotional, and informational support to women during labor and birth. A doula can help you with pain relief techniques, comfort measures, and advocacy. A doula can also help you communicate with your health care team and make informed decisions. A birthing partner, such as your spouse, friend, or family member, can also provide you with encouragement, reassurance, and assistance during labor. Having a supportive person by your side can make you feel more confident and less fearful2
  • Movement and changing positions: Moving around and changing positions can help you cope with pain and speed up labor. Movement can help your baby descend and rotate, and ease pressure on your back and pelvis. Changing positions can also help you find the most comfortable and effective way to push. Some of the positions that can help you during labor are squatting, kneeling, sitting, standing, or lying on your side2
  • Hydrotherapy: This is the use of water to ease pain and discomfort during labor. Hydrotherapy can help you relax, lower your blood pressure, and reduce the need for medication. You can use hydrotherapy by taking a warm bath or shower, or by immersing yourself in a birthing pool or tub. Hydrotherapy can also help your cervix dilate and your contractions become more effective1
  • Hypnosis: This is a state of deep relaxation and focused attention, in which you can access your subconscious mind and change your perception of pain. Hypnosis can help you reduce fear, anxiety, and stress, and increase your confidence and control. Hypnosis can also help you create positive affirmations and visualizations that can enhance your birth experience. You can learn hypnosis from a certified hypnotherapist, or use self-hypnosis techniques, such as listening to audio recordings or reading scripts1

Bonus – Childbirth education: Taking a childbirth class can help you prepare for labor and birth, and learn about the stages of labor, the signs of labor, and the possible complications and interventions. A childbirth class can also teach you about natural pain relief techniques, such as breathing, massage, visualization, and hypnosis. A childbirth class can help you build confidence, reduce anxiety, and have realistic expectations1

These are some of the pain management hacks that you can use during an unmedicated childbirth. I hope you find them helpful and useful. Remember, every woman and every birth is different, and you should choose what works best for you and your baby. I wish you all the best for your birth. 😊 


1. Labor Contractions vs. Pushing: What Hurts More? – Parents 

2. Thinking About Childbirth Without Pain Medication? Here’s How … – ACOG 

3. 8 ways to prepare for natural birth: Easing labor pain without an … 

4. Coping Skills for Labor without Medication – Cleveland Clinic 

5. 5 tips on natural childbirth from an Ob/Gyn who experienced it